Karzai ‘a reliable partner of US’

Senior members of Barack Obama’s administration have been trying to repair the troubled relationship between the US and Afghan president Hamid Karzai.

Mr Karzai and US General Stanley McChrystal met hundreds of elders in Afghanistan’s Kunduz on Sunday, the third such trip in recent days, in what NATO says is part of its strategy of emphasising the Afghan government’s role in military efforts.

The Obama administration had been upset when Mr Karzai accused foreigners of instigating election fraud and of trying to weaken him.

But US secretary of state Hillary Clinton praised the Afghan leader, calling him a “reliable partner”.

“I personally have a lot of sympathy for president Karzai and the extraordinary stress he lives under every single minute of every day,” she said.

US defence secretary Robert Gates said Mr Karzai was being very helpful.

“The fact is on a day-to-day basis he has a very effective working relationship with General McChrystal.”

The Afghan leader is due to visit Washington next month.

In a sign of the volatility of a once-peaceful northern region, plans for Mr Karzai to address German troops in Kunduz were called off at the last minute.

Residents and German forces said rockets had fallen near the German base there.

Kunduz has seen a surge in Taliban attacks and is expected to become a main battle front in coming months.

U.S. seeks to heal rift with Karzai

(Reuters) – Top U.S. officials sought to repair Washington’s troubled relationship with Afghan President Hamid Karzai, calling him a reliable partner and pledging to treat him with greater sensitivity.

Barack Obama

U.S. Defense Secretary Robert Gates and Secretary of State Hillary Clinton both described Karzai as a constructive player in trying to stabilize Afghanistan and distanced themselves from people outside the administration who have described his behavior as erratic. Their comments were made in television interviews taped on Friday but aired on Sunday,

“Some of these outlandish claims that are being made and accusations that are being hurled are really unfortunate,” Clinton told CBS’s “Face the Nation.”

“This is a leader who is under enormous pressure,” she said. “And I wonder sometimes how anybody can cope with the kind of relentless stress that you face after having been in some military activity or war footing for 30 years, which is what the reality is in Afghanistan.”

Gates told ABC’s “This Week” that the U.S. military had a “very positive” relationship with Karzai and called him “the embodiment of sovereignty for Afghanistan.”

“I think we frankly have to be sensitive in our own comments about President Karzai,” Gates said.

Earlier this month, after a series of comments by Karzai that rankled Washington, White House press secretary Robert Gibbs left open the possibility of a cancellation of Karzai’s planned May 12 meeting with President Barack Obama.

In remarks that U.S. officials now downplay as an effort to seek favor with his domestic audience, Karzai blamed foreigners for perpetrating election fraud in Afghanistan and accused Western governments of trying to weaken him.

Media reports also suggested that Karzai’s meeting with Obama last month had been tense, with the Afghan leader perceiving Obama’s comments about corruption as lecturing. The meeting took place during Obama’s first visit as president to Afghanistan.

In a decision that markedly increased his administration’s stakes in the outcome of the U.S. and NATO-led fight against the Taliban insurgency in Afghanistan, Obama in December ordered the deployment of an extra 30,000 to Afghanistan.

The Obama administration has had an uneasy relationship with Karzai throughout Obama’s 15 months in office.

The White House began the effort to effort mend fences with Karzai last week when Obama sent a letter to the Afghan president thanking him for his hospitality during the visit and reiterating the importance of the partnership between Washington and Kabul.

White House National Security Adviser James Jones, who briefed reporters on the letter on Friday, brushed off Karzai’s earlier comments and said the Afghan leader “did not intend to create any damage to the relationship” with them.

On CBS, Gates said Karzai had been helpful in an operation to regain control of the southern city of Kandahar, Karzai’s hometown.

“He’s already made a couple of these trips to the Kandahar area with General (Stanley) McChrystal and so he is very much participating in setting the stage if you will for this next phase of the campaign,” Gates said. McChrystal is the top U.S. and NATO commander in Afghanistan.

(Additional reporting by Emily Kaiser; Editing by Jackie Frank)

U.S. seeks to heal rift with Karzai

(Reuters) – Top U.S. officials sought to repair Washington’s troubled relationship with Afghan President Hamid Karzai, calling him a reliable partner and pledging to treat him with greater sensitivity.

Barack Obama

U.S. Defense Secretary Robert Gates and Secretary of State Hillary Clinton both described Karzai as a constructive player in trying to stabilize Afghanistan and distanced themselves from people outside the administration who have described his behavior as erratic. Their comments were made in television interviews taped on Friday but aired on Sunday,

“Some of these outlandish claims that are being made and accusations that are being hurled are really unfortunate,” Clinton told CBS’s “Face the Nation.”

“This is a leader who is under enormous pressure,” she said. “And I wonder sometimes how anybody can cope with the kind of relentless stress that you face after having been in some military activity or war footing for 30 years, which is what the reality is in Afghanistan.”

Gates told ABC’s “This Week” that the U.S. military had a “very positive” relationship with Karzai and called him “the embodiment of sovereignty for Afghanistan.”

“I think we frankly have to be sensitive in our own comments about President Karzai,” Gates said.

Earlier this month, after a series of comments by Karzai that rankled Washington, White House press secretary Robert Gibbs left open the possibility of a cancellation of Karzai’s planned May 12 meeting with President Barack Obama.

In remarks that U.S. officials now downplay as an effort to seek favor with his domestic audience, Karzai blamed foreigners for perpetrating election fraud in Afghanistan and accused Western governments of trying to weaken him.

Media reports also suggested that Karzai’s meeting with Obama last month had been tense, with the Afghan leader perceiving Obama’s comments about corruption as lecturing. The meeting took place during Obama’s first visit as president to Afghanistan.

In a decision that markedly increased his administration’s stakes in the outcome of the U.S. and NATO-led fight against the Taliban insurgency in Afghanistan, Obama in December ordered the deployment of an extra 30,000 to Afghanistan.

The Obama administration has had an uneasy relationship with Karzai throughout Obama’s 15 months in office.

The White House began the effort to effort mend fences with Karzai last week when Obama sent a letter to the Afghan president thanking him for his hospitality during the visit and reiterating the importance of the partnership between Washington and Kabul.

White House National Security Adviser James Jones, who briefed reporters on the letter on Friday, brushed off Karzai’s earlier comments and said the Afghan leader “did not intend to create any damage to the relationship” with them.

On CBS, Gates said Karzai had been helpful in an operation to regain control of the southern city of Kandahar, Karzai’s hometown.

“He’s already made a couple of these trips to the Kandahar area with General (Stanley) McChrystal and so he is very much participating in setting the stage if you will for this next phase of the campaign,” Gates said. McChrystal is the top U.S. and NATO commander in Afghanistan.

(Additional reporting by Emily Kaiser; Editing by Jackie Frank)

U.S. seeks to heal rift with Karzai

WASHINGTON, April 11 (Reuters) – Top U.S. officials sought to repair Washington’s troubled relationship with Afghan President Hamid Karzai, calling him a reliable partner and pledging to treat him with greater sensitivity.

U.S. Defense Secretary Robert Gates and Secretary of State Hillary Clinton both described Karzai as a constructive player in trying to stabilize Afghanistan and distanced themselves from people outside the administration who have described his behavior as erratic. Their comments were made in television interviews taped on Friday but aired on Sunday,

“Some of these outlandish claims that are being made and accusations that are being hurled are really unfortunate,” Clinton told CBS’s “Face the Nation.”

“This is a leader who is under enormous pressure,” she said. “And I wonder sometimes how anybody can cope with the kind of relentless stress that you face after having been in some military activity or war footing for 30 years, which is what the reality is in Afghanistan.”

Gates told ABC’s “This Week” that the U.S. military had a “very positive” relationship with Karzai and called him “the embodiment of sovereignty for Afghanistan.”

“I think we frankly have to be sensitive in our own comments about President Karzai,” Gates said.

Earlier this month, after a series of comments by Karzai that rankled Washington, White House press secretary Robert Gibbs left open the possibility of a cancellation of Karzai’s planned May 12 meeting with President Barack Obama.

In remarks that U.S. officials now downplay as an effort to seek favor with his domestic audience, Karzai blamed foreigners for perpetrating election fraud in Afghanistan and accused Western governments of trying to weaken him.

Media reports also suggested that Karzai’s meeting with Obama last month had been tense, with the Afghan leader perceiving Obama’s comments about corruption as lecturing. The meeting took place during Obama’s first visit as president to Afghanistan.

In a decision that markedly increased his administration’s stakes in the outcome of the U.S. and NATO-led fight against the Taliban insurgency in Afghanistan, Obama in December ordered the deployment of an extra 30,000 to Afghanistan.

The Obama administration has had an uneasy relationship with Karzai throughout Obama’s 15 months in office.

The White House began the effort to effort mend fences with Karzai last week when Obama sent a letter to the Afghan president thanking him for his hospitality during the visit and reiterating the importance of the partnership between Washington and Kabul.

White House National Security Adviser James Jones, who briefed reporters on the letter on Friday, brushed off Karzai’s earlier comments and said the Afghan leader “did not intend to create any damage to the relationship” with them.

On CBS, Gates said Karzai had been helpful in an operation to regain control of the southern city of Kandahar, Karzai’s hometown.(ID:nSGE639039])

“He’s already made a couple of these trips to the Kandahar area with General (Stanley) McChrystal and so he is very much participating in setting the stage if you will for this next phase of the campaign,” Gates said. McChrystal is the top U.S. and NATO commander in Afghanistan. (Additional reporting by Emily Kaiser; Editing by Jackie Frank)

Obama: Cuba rights situation ‘deeply disturbing’

President Barack Obama on Wednesday denounced the human rights situation in communist Cuba as “deeply disturbing,” underscoring continuing tensions with Havana despite his pledge to recast relations.

Obama, in a written statement, cited the death last month of jailed Cuban dissident Orlando Zapata Tamayo and what he described as “intensified harassment of those who dare to give voice to the desires of their fellow Cubans.”

“These events underscore that instead of embracing an opportunity to enter a new era, Cuban authorities continue to respond to the aspirations of the Cuban people with a clenched fist,” Obama said.

Obama reiterated a long-standing U.S. call for Cuba’s communist government to release all political prisoners unconditionally.

“Recent events in Cuba … are deeply disturbing,” Obama said.

After taking office last year, Obama promised to recast Washington’s troubled relationship with Cuba and took initial steps such as lifting restrictions on family visits and slightly softening the 47-year-old trade embargo on the island.

But hopes for warmer ties have dissipated amid familiar disputes over remaining U.S. trade restrictions, spying and human rights. U.S. critics of Obama’s outreach to Havana say he has gotten little in return.

Cuba has accused the Obama administration of continuing to meddle in its affairs by supporting and funding dissident groups in the same way as previous U.S. governments.

“During the course of the past year, I have taken steps to reach out to the Cuban people and to signal my desire to seek a new era in relations between the governments of the United States and Cuba,” Obama said.

“I remain committed to supporting the simple desire of the Cuban people to freely determine their future and to enjoy the rights and freedoms that define the Americas,” he said.

Pro-government protesters and police violently disrupted a recent series of marches by opposition activists in Havana.

Arrests and rough tactics brought fresh international condemnation for the Cuban government, already under fire for the Feb. 23 death of Zapata after an 85-day hunger strike protesting prison conditions.

(Reporting by Matt Spetalnick; Editing by Will Dunham)

MJ called dad to help deal with ‘bully’ music bosses, says La Toya

Washington, September 18 (ANI): Michael Jackson’s sister La Toya has revealed that the late singer called his father Joe to help him deal with music executives.

The revelation comes as a surprise as the King of Pop had been open about his troubled relationship with his dad.

“Michael had a wonderful relationship with my father,” Contactmusic quoted La Toya as saying.

The ‘Thriller’ singer apparently wanted his father to deal with music bosses of his future shows.

She said: ” About two or three weeks before he passed he was having this really big meeting with all these people that were working with him and he said, ‘Joseph, I need you to come, I need you to be there because I’m not liking anything these people are doing with me, I want you to be there and tell them like it is.’ He even wrote a note to say, ‘I must call Joseph to have him there.’” (ANI)

Newton’s regrets over early romance with director John Duigan as a teen

London, Aug 18 (ANI): Thandie Newton reportedly regrets starting her career at a young age, and getting into a troubled relationship with director John Duigan as a teen.

The actress flew to Australia at the age of 16 for filming her debut movie ‘Flirting’ in 1991, and, shortly afterwards, began a turbulent six-year romance with the director of the film, then 39.

However, now after recently working with schoolgirls at Oprah Winfrey’s Leadership Academy in South Africa, Newton realised how young she was when she started her love affair with Duigan.

And the ‘Crash’ star still wonders how the filmmaker could have dated someone so “vulnerable”.

“I was 16. I didn’t tell my parents about it (the relationship) but really young people who are vulnerable have to be looked out for. I’ve just been out to South Africa to Oprah’s Leadership Academy. It educates girls from impoverished backgrounds and I was taking part in an arts week,” The Daily Express quoted her as saying.

She added: “I looked at the 16-year-old girls there. How can it possibly be right to start a serious relationship with someone that age when you are so much older? I’ve been through a lot of therapy so I sort of know why people do things now.” (ANI)

Likeability and competence are key to choice of therapist

Mainz, Germany – Be it lovesickness, a troubled relationship, anxiety or depression, emotional problems can have many causes. Therapy may help. But how do you find the right therapist?

The various occupational descriptions themselves are confusing. A psychotherapist may be a psychiatrist, psychologist or other mental health professional. There are also different kinds of therapies. They include psychoanalysis, during which the patient talks about childhood experiences, and behaviour therapy with practical training, as in cases of anxiety.

First of all, it’s important to admit to yourself that you’ve got a problem and need help,” said Ulrike Rachnow, a psycho synthesis therapist in Cologne.

“To begin with, you should try to figure out yourself where the problems may lie,” added Fritz Propach, a psychologist who works for the Munich-based association Pro Psychotherapie.

A search for a psychotherapist could begin on the internet. Another guiding point is a psychotherapist’s area of expertise, as well as on terminology used in psychotherapy. The names can guide people seeking a therapist of a particular sex.

“During the initial sessions, it’s important that the patient finds the therapist likeable and trustworthy,” Propach remarked, adding, “You’ve got to have the feeling that the therapist can help you.”

Studies have shown that a therapy’s success depends to a considerable degree on whether the therapist is suited to the patient, Gropalis pointed out.

“Is it a person you’d like to share your problems with for a year or longer?” she asked.

In Germany, every therapy begins with five trial sessions. “You should be sure to take advantage of these hours and try out several therapists concurrently if possible,” Gropalis advised.

It was also important to ask the therapist, if he or she is available following the trial, she noted.

Gropalis said it was also important to ensure that the therapist has proper scientific training. Diagnostically conclusive studies have been done on many psychotherapeutic methods, she noted. And though a method that has helped many people with problems similar to yours will not necessarily work for you, too, the chances of success are greater, she said.

Sandra ‘Pepa’ Denton urges Rihanna to get rid of Brown

Washington, Mar 20 (ANI): Singer Rihanna, who was allegedly attacked by Chris Brown and left her with horrific injuries, has been urged by fellow entertainer Salt-N-Pepa star Sandra ‘Pepa’ Denton to get rid of him.

Denton, who was allegedly beaten at the hand’s of her ex-husband Anthony Criss throughout their decade-long relationship, urged the ‘Umbrella’ hitmaker to take a bold step and leave Brown.

“I know people will say I have a lot of nerve advising her when I stayed with my ex-husband for ten years and suffered abuse, but that’s exactly why I can talk to her,” Contactmusic quoted Denton as telling Essence magazine.

“I thought I loved him, but I had to finally realize that wasn’t love. Thankfully, I lived to talk about it, but some women don’t,” Denton added.

Rihanna, who has reportedly reconciled with Brown, should turn her back on the troubled relationship because she should not send a wrong message to her young female fans, Denton insisted.

“At the end of the day, your life is on the line when you’re dealing with abusive men, and your life is more important than any man. Don’t rationalise or internalise abusive behaviour because love doesn’t hurt,” Denton said.

“You are an icon to so many young girls and your actions are telling them you don’t love you enough. Take time out and love yourself and thank God that you survived it,” Denton added.

Meanwhile, Brown has been charged on two felony counts, and released on a bail of 50,000 dollars until a hearing on April 6. (ANI)

Lara Bingle, Michael Clarke scotch ‘troubled relationship’ rumours

Melbourne, Jan 15 (ANI): Australian cricketer Michael Clarke and his fiance Australian model Lara Bingle have dismissed rumours that their relationship is going through a rough patch.

Rumours of trouble in the couple’s fairytale romance emerged after Bingle was spotted leaving a business in Sydney not wearing her sizeable engagement ring and hiding her face, reports News.com.au.

Today’s gossip guru Richard Reid said that the pictures of Bingle, which have been taken by a woman’s magazine, proved that couple’s relationship is on the rocks.

“This is her the other day coming out of couple’s counselling – no ring, obviously distraught,” Reid said.

However, representatives for the couple quickly set the record straight, saying all was well between the queen of the cricketing WAGs and the Australian vice-captain.

They said that Bingle and Clarke had been together at massage therapist in the Sydney suburb of Pyrmont, getting a dual massage.

Their treatments lasted an hour and they where asked to take their jewellery off during the massage. They regularly have treatments at the business.

The couple left the premise separately and Bingle covered her face when confronted by two photographers to hide her face as she apparently had a big red mark on her head from lying face down on the massage table, the reps added. (ANI)