Study sheds light on factors that contribute to teens” decision-making autonomy

Washington, March 26 (ANI): A new study by researchers at the Pennsylvania State University has revealed that some adolescents have more say in certain areas than others while some have greater autonomy than other teens.

The findings have appeared in the March/April 2010 issue of the journal Child Development.

For nine years, the researchers annually canvassed parents in about 200 White, European-American families about their teens” decisions.

Mothers and fathers reported on who made decisions in eight areas of their children”s lives, including chores, appearance, curfew/bedtime, health, schoolwork, social life, activities, and money.

The researchers noted that young people”s input into decisions increased gradually from ages 9 to 14, and then surged from ages 15 to 20.

Moreover, young people had more input into decisions about appearance, activities, schoolwork, and social life than about chores, health, and curfew.

It was found that in late adolescence (ages 18 to 20), decisions about money and health were still being made jointly by parents and adolescents, suggesting that autonomy developed more gradually for these types of decisions.

The study also revealed that certain children had more decision-making autonomy than others.

Those with more decision-making autonomy included girls, young people whom their parents said were easy to supervise, and children with better-educated parents.

However, there wasn”t a single, universal pattern in the development of decision making.

Instead, decision-making autonomy depended on what kinds of decisions youngsters faced, and on their personal and family circumstances. (ANI)

The Caribbean hotel that offers $300 off to couples conceiving during stay!

London, September 15 (ANI): Here’s good news for those planning ‘good news’. A luxury resort on a Dutch Caribbean island has come up with an unusual scheme-a discount of 300 dollars for couples if they conceive a child during their stay.

The Westin Resort in Aruba introduced the offer, open to guests staying at the hotel before December 18 of this year, in a bid to lure future mothers and fathers.

Couples can bag a 300-dollar ‘Conception Credit’ if they are able to prove the baby was conceived on the resort’s premises during the time of their stay, reports the Telegraph.

A spokesperson for Westin said that a doctor’s note confirming that the probable conception date coincided with the lovers’ stay would be received as evidence.

And if successful, couples can also enjoy at least one nights’ complimentary accommodation at the 200-dollar a night resort. (ANI)

Long working hours make parents compromise on food choices

Washington, Sept 10 (ANI): Long work hours and irregular schedules are forcing people to compromise on food choices for themselves and their children, suggests a new study.

The research team from Cornell University measured food choice coping strategies in low- to middle-income families in five categories: (1) food prepared at/away from home; (2) missing meals; (3) individualizing meals (family eats differently, separately, or together); (4) speeding up to save time; and (5) planning.

They found that fathers who worked long hours or had nonstandard hours and schedules were more likely to use take-out meals, miss family meals, purchase prepared entrees, and eat while working.

Similarly, mothers were also likely to purchase restaurant meals or prepared entrees or missed breakfast.

About a quarter of mothers and fathers said they did not have access to healthful, reasonably priced, and/or good-tasting food at or near work.

The findings suggest that better work conditions may be associated with more positive strategies such as more home-prepared meals, eating with the family, keeping healthful food at work, and less meal skipping.

“This study examined how work conditions are related to the food choice coping strategies of low- and moderate-income parents,” said Dr Carol M. Devine, RD, Division of Nutritional Sciences, Cornell University, and colleagues.

“Study findings will enhance understanding of social and temporal employment constraints on adults’ food choices and may inform workplace interventions and policies…The importance of work structure for employed parents’ food choice strategies is seen in the associations between work hours and schedule and food choice coping strategies, such as meals away from home and missed family meals.

“Long work hours and irregular schedules mean more time away from family, less time for household food work, difficulty in maintaining a regular meal pattern, and less opportunity to participate in family meals; this situation may result in feelings of time scarcity, fatigue, and strain that leave parents with less personal energy for food and meals,” the researchers added.

The study appears in the Journal of Nutrition Education and Behavior. (ANI)

Dad’s early involvement with child boosts their connection in school

Washington, June 23 (ANI): A father, who changes his baby’s diapers and keeps a check on the child’s day to day activities, is more likely to be more involved in the kid’s school years as well, according to a University of Illinois study.

The study explores the role of parent involvement on student achievement.

“If we want fathers to be involved in school, we need to focus on men building close, loving relationships with their children in the preschool years. When fathers do this, they’re writing a script that says they’re involved in their child’s life, and their expectation is that they’ll go on being involved in that child’s life,” said Brent McBride, a professor of Human Development.

He focussed on affection as an example of early parent involvement.

“That can be as simple as a father winking at his three-year-old child. If you, as a dad, develop an affectionate way of interacting with your preschooler, later when your child comes home and tells you what he’s done in school that day, the warm, close relationship you’ve built will allow him to approach you with trust, and it will allow you to respond to your child’s enthusiasm or frustration in a positive way,” he said.

He added: “If fathers wait to seek a closer relationship with their child until later in the child’s life, the moment has passed.”

The study was conducted on 390 children and their families from the Child Development Supplement data set of the Panel Study of Income Dynamics.

When the children were two to five years old, the researchers measured five early parenting behaviours in both parents.

The behavioural characteristics were-parent-child household-centred activities, parent-child child-centred activities (for example, reading to kids), parental limit setting, responsibility (such as making doctor’s appointments), and demonstrating affection.

Later, they assessed mothers’ and fathers’ involvement in school and the children’s student achievement.

The study showed that the paths are different for mothers and fathers, and it is believed that parents and teachers should acknowledge that and build on these differences.

For example, although mothers’ involvement in school-related activities was positively associated with student achievement, fathers’ involvement in such activities had a negative correlation with academic success.

“But this occurs because fathers who have established a pattern of being involved early in a child’s life are more likely to step in at school (for example, in formal conferences and interaction with teachers) when their child is struggling in the school setting,” he said.

However, he explained that parental roles are not scripted for men as they are for women, and expectations aren’t as clear-cut, saying: “As long as a father is providing for his children, he’s usually considered a good father.”

“And, although we’re trying to encourage fathers to become more engaged in parenting than they have been, I don’t believe the institutional mechanisms are in place to help that engagement along. Child-care providers and teachers aren’t trained to approach fathers to help them become more involved as parents,” he said.

He believes the best way to make these changes is to work with child-care providers and educators, so that they broaden their definition of parent to mean more than mothers. (ANI)

3 in 4 four Brit kids don’t know how to boil an egg

London, May 20 (ANI): Three quarters of British kids do not know how to boil an egg, new research has found.

The poll for supermarket chain Morrisons found that almost half of the youngsters in the UK never or rarely help prepare their family’s evening meal.

The survey of 1,000 children and 1,000 parents showed that 37 percent kids preferred watching television or surfing the Internet to culinary pursuits.

During the study, 27 percent parents admitted it was easier to leave their children to amuse themselves rather than enlist them in cooking.

However, around a third of parents said that they wanted to teach their cooking, as they had inherited kitchen skills from their own mothers and fathers.

According to author Annable Karmel, teaching cooking to kids would also help them to develop skills in other areas.

“Cooking is a great way for children to learn about maths, measuring, and understanding time, so it’s worth the effort. What’s more it’s a great way to get fussy eaters to try new foods,” Sky News quoted her as saying.

Karmel suggests that by the age of six, kids should be able to chop vegetables, grate cheese and boil an egg, while 13-year-olds should be cooking fish, chicken and meat and baking potatoes.

By the age of 16, teenagers should have mastered risottos and pasta dishes.

The study showed that kids and parents still hold the ability to cook in high regard, with 80 percent viewing a culinary ability as an important skill. (ANI)

Parents suffer more from rifts with adult children

Washington, May 6 (ANI): Parents are bothered more than their adult children when rifts between them occur, according to a study.

The tension and aggravation from such rifts affects parents even more if their adult children are older.

“The parent-child relationship is one of the longest lasting social ties human beings establish. This tie is often highly positive and supportive but it also commonly includes feelings of irritation, tension and ambivalence,” said Kira Birditt, lead author of the study.

For the study, the researchers analysed data on 474 parents and adult children who were at least 22 years old.

In the study, the researchers asked about tensions related to a variety of topics, including personality differences, past relationship problems, children’s finances, housekeeping habits, lifestyles, and how often they contacted each other.

And they found that parents and adult children in the same families had different perceptions of tension intensity, with parents generally reporting more intense tensions than children did particularly regarding issues having to do with the children’s lifestyle or behaviour (finances, housekeeping).

Birditt said that the tensions might be more upsetting to parents than to children because parents have invested more in the relationship and are also concerned with launching their children into successful adulthood.

Both mothers and fathers reported more tension in their relationships with daughters than with sons.

Daughters generally have closer relationships with parents that involve more contact, which may provide more opportunities for tensions in the parent-daughter tie.

And both adult sons as well as adult daughters reported more tension with their mothers than with their fathers, particularly about personality differences and unsolicited advice.

Birditt said: “It may be that children feel their mothers make more demands for closeness, or that they are generally more intrusive than fathers.”

Surprisingly, she found that parental perceptions of tension increased with the adult children’s age, particularly about topics having to do with how they interact (e.g., personality differences).

“Middle-aged children may be less invested in the parent-child tie than young adult children because they’re more likely to have formed their own families and experience multiple role demands,” she said.

And as parents age and need more from their relationship with adult children, adult children may pull away, creating greater relationship tensions.

The study will be published in an upcoming issue of the journal Psychology and Aging. (ANI)