Supportive parents can stop teenagers from becoming materialistic

Washington, March 25 (ANI): Supportive parents can help teenagers from becoming materialistic, a new study claims.

University of Arizona marketing researcher Lan Nguyen Chaplin claims that adolescents of this age have been characterized as the most materialistic generation in history.

He insists parents have a very important role to play.

Chaplin said: “Instead of just looking at how parents and peers encourage materialism in teenagers, we also examine how they decrease materialism. We view parents and peers as important sources of emotional support and psychological well-being, which ultimately affects teenagers” level of materialism.

“We find that supportive parents and peers boost adolescents” self-esteem, which decreases their need to embrace material goods as a way to develop positive self-perceptions.”

Chaplin and co-author Deborah Roedder John of the University of Minnesota Carlson School of Management, studied 12- to 18-year-olds and found that it is possible for parents to reduce their adolescents” drive for material goods.

They found that teenagers who have supportive and accepting parents and peers in their lives are less materialistic. Parents and peers can provide the support and acceptance that teens crave, which reduces their need to focus on expensive material goods as a substitute for self-worth.

Chaplin explained: “Parents and peers play a very important role in teenagers” lives. They provide the much needed emotional support and contribute greatly to teenagers” feelings of self-worth. When teens feel better about themselves, they are less likely to feel the need to use material possessions to boost their self-esteem and achieve happiness.”

The paper titled, “Interpersonal Influences on Adolescent Materialism: A New Look at the Role of Parents and Peers,” will soon be published in the Journal of Consumer Psychology. (ANI)

Spanking found to have negative effects on low-income toddlers

Washington, September 16 (ANI): Spanking negatively affects the behaviour of toddlers in low-income families, according to a new study.

Published in the journal Child Development, the longitudinal study looked at how low-income parents discipline their young children.

It showed that spanking 1-year-olds leads to more aggressive behaviours and less sophisticated cognitive development in the next two years.

Verbal punishment, however, was not found to be associated with such effects, especially when it was accompanied by emotional support from mothers.

Besides, 1-year-olds’ fussiness predicted spanking and verbal punishment at ages 1, 2, and 3.

The study explored whether mothers’ behaviours lead to problematic behaviour in children, whether children’s challenging behaviours elicit harsher discipline, or both.

It looked at more than 2,500 exclusively low-income White, African American, and Mexican-American mothers and their young children, interviewing and observing them at home when the children were 1, 2, and 3 years old.

All participants’ family incomes were at or below the federal poverty level.

Using their own interpretations of spanking, mothers reported how often anyone in the home had spanked their children in the past week.

The study also looked at how often mothers verbally punished-scolded, yelled, or made negative comments-their children.

It showed that African American children were spanked and verbally punished significantly more than the other children in the study.

The authors speculated that that might be due to cultural factors, such as belief in the importance of children’s respect for elders and in the value of physical discipline to instil that respect.

Moreover, some African American mothers said that in preparing their children for a harsh, physically dangerous, and racially discriminating world, there was little room for error in their childrearing.

The study also shed light on information about the effects of such types of discipline.

“Our findings clearly indicate that spanking affects children’s development,” said Lisa J. Berlin, research scientist at the Center for Child and Family Policy at Duke University and the study’s lead author.

Specifically, children who were spanked more often at 1 behaved more aggressively when they were 2, and had lower scores on tests measuring thinking skills when they were 3.

Similar findings were made even after taking into consideration such family characteristics as mothers’ race and ethnicity, age, and education; family income and structure; and the children’s gender.

The study also found that children who were more aggressive at age 2, and had lower cognitive development scores at ages 1 and 2, were not spanked more at ages 2 and 3.

“So the mothers’ behaviours look more influential than the children’s,” said Berlin.

Unlike spanking, however, verbal punishment alone didn’t affect either children’s aggression or their cognitive development.

Interestingly, when verbal punishment was accompanied by emotional support from moms, the children did better on the tests of cognitive ability. (ANI)

Katie Price’s hellraiser lifestyle could make her lose kids and £5m

London, September 6 (ANI): Hottie Katie Price could lose custody of her kids as well as 5 million pounds to her estranged husband/singer Peter Andre due to her hellraiser lifestyle, according to a top showbiz lawyer.

Ambi Sitham has said that the reality star’s boozy jaunts to Ibiza may do her harm during the divorce procedures at court.

“Price’s behaviour over the last four months is probably going to contribute to the custody arrangements, especially her well-publicised trips to Ibiza,” the Daily Star quoted her as saying.

Price’s explicit relationship with boyfriend Alex Reid, who has acted in an X-rated movie, may become a problem too.

She added: “She was obviously getting very drunk. In addition she has exposed her children at a very young age to a new relationship with Alex Reid.

“They will look into his background and at his suitability as a potential stepfather to Price’s children.

“The courts will not look favourably on anyone they deem a bad role model.

“I should think the least the judge would decide is to grant joint custody of the children to Price and Andre. He might even get sole custody.

“Andre, coming from a strong Greek-Cypriot family ­background, has conducted himself as the model father.”

The lawyer believes that Price could lose out on at least a quarter of the 20million pounds she has made since her wedding to the ‘Mysterious Girl’ singer during the settlement.

Ambi said: “The courts will look at what role was played in emotional support as well as financial.

“Andre will be able to show he ­contributed to the Katie Price brand. Before they met she was purely known as Jordan the glamour model.

“As a result of marrying Andre she was able to create an alter ego. I think she is in line for a bit of a shock.

“She will not be walking away from this without making a substantial payout.” (ANI)

‘Model friend helping Jack Tweed smile again’

London, June 28 (ANI): Late Jade Goody’s husband Jack Tweed has grown close to model Francesca Allured, it has emerged.

The friendship between the two that existed even before Goody’s demise grew strong as the model provided emotional support to the widower.

“They look really happy in each other’s company. They’ve been very close friends now since before Jade died but have been very careful not to be seen together for fear of people whispering behind their backs,” the News of the World quoted an insider as saying.

Francesca, of Chigwell, Essex, reportedly said that she was a close friend of Tweed’s but refrained from being seen together in the public to avoid creating a scandal.

Jack was jailed for ten days following his wife’s burial for beating up a cab driver. (ANI)

Generation Y still seek advice from their parents

Melbourne, June 23 (ANI): No matter how independent they think they are, but Generation Y brigade still look for advice of their parents, according to a research by the Australian Institute of Family Studies.

The study, which is a part of the Australian Temperament Project, gives a rare insight into the relationship between parents and their adult children.

The Australian Temperament Project has been following the life of nearly 2000 Australians since they were born in 1983.

Diana Smart, institute general manager of research, said that not much research had been done about how the role of parents evolved as their children reached their early adult years.

“There’s a lot of uncertainty about what parents are meant to do once their children reach those early adult years,” the Courier Mail quoted Smart as saying.

She added: “Where it is different these days is that many young people are still living at home, where 30 or 40 years ago at this age of 23 to 24, most young people were married and even parents.”

The study also found that the parents have no inclination how much their adult children still value their input.

While 88 per cent of young adults said they still counted on their parents for advice and emotional support, only 70 per cent of parents thought of themselves as still helping in that role.

The study found that 94 per cent of young people said that their relationship with their parents was important to them, and 84 per cent said their parents played a major role in their lives.

Smart said that the study showed parents underestimated just how much support their children felt they provided.

The research has been published in the journal Family Matters. (ANI)

Few words of encouragement really work when it comes to sporting success

Washington, May 2 (ANI): A new study has confirmed what many people already knew- a few words of encouragement can significantly boost a sportsperson’s performance on the field.

Researchers from University of Exeter have revealed that emotional support in personal as well as professional lives give the players or athletes an edge over their opponents.

During the study, the team focused on three male golfers, who all competed at regional, national and international level.

For half of the golfers lead researcher Dr Paul Freeman gave them regular one-on-one support.

He offered a range of support including listening to the golfers as they talked through their problems, offering encouragement and reassurance before competitions, and helping with practical issues, such as organising accommodation during competitions.

The researchers found that all three golfers performed better when they were receiving support.

The players improved by an average of 1.78 shots per round, which could be significant at high-level golf.

“The benefits of social support on sports performance have been demonstrated in previous studies,” said Freeman.

“In this study we have taken our understanding of the significance of social support a step further. By actually providing support to the golfers we were able to measure the actual improvement in performance.

“It is significant that the support I offered, as a relative stranger, had such a marked influence on their results.

“The findings suggest that amateur and professional athletes would benefit from seeking social support, whether this is from a friend or family member or even from a professional,” he added.

The findings are published in the Journal of Applied Sport Psychology. (ANI)

UK teens spend 87 hours a year looking at online porn

New York, Feb 11 (ANI): The average teen spends one hour and 40 minutes each week surfing the Internet for pornography, according to new UK research.

This mathematics equates to 87 hours a year spent surfing for porn.

A further hour and 35 minutes is spent looking at dieting and weight loss websites, the Daily Mail reported.

The study of 1,000 youngsters, which found the average teenager was online 31 hours each week looking at soft pornography, plastic surgery, dieting, family planning and emotional support, was conducted by CyberSentinel.

“The alarming thing about this research is that it shows that teenagers are obviously exploring all sorts of topics as a result of modern-day pressures,” the New York Daily News quoted Ellie Puddle, Marketing Director of CyberSentinel, as saying.

“And for some reason they find it easier to go online to conduct their research than asking mum and dad for advice,” she added. (ANI)

UK teens spend 87 hours a year looking at online porn

New York, Feb 11 (ANI): The average teen spends one hour and 40 minutes each week surfing the Internet for pornography, according to new UK research.

This mathematics equates to 87 hours a year spent surfing for porn.

A further hour and 35 minutes is spent looking at dieting and weight loss websites, the Daily Mail reported.

The study of 1,000 youngsters, which found the average teenager was online 31 hours each week looking at soft pornography, plastic surgery, dieting, family planning and emotional support, was conducted by CyberSentinel.

“The alarming thing about this research is that it shows that teenagers are obviously exploring all sorts of topics as a result of modern-day pressures,” the New York Daily News quoted Ellie Puddle, Marketing Director of CyberSentinel, as saying.

“And for some reason they find it easier to go online to conduct their research than asking mum and dad for advice,” she added. (ANI)

UK teens spend 87 hours a year looking at online porn

New York, Feb 11 (ANI): The average teen spends one hour and 40 minutes each week surfing the Internet for pornography, according to new UK research.

This mathematics equates to 87 hours a year spent surfing for porn.

A further hour and 35 minutes is spent looking at dieting and weight loss websites, the Daily Mail reported.

The study of 1,000 youngsters, which found the average teenager was online 31 hours each week looking at soft pornography, plastic surgery, dieting, family planning and emotional support, was conducted by CyberSentinel.

“The alarming thing about this research is that it shows that teenagers are obviously exploring all sorts of topics as a result of modern-day pressures,” the New York Daily News quoted Ellie Puddle, Marketing Director of CyberSentinel, as saying.

“And for some reason they find it easier to go online to conduct their research than asking mum and dad for advice,” she added. (ANI)

UK teens spend 87 hours a year looking at online porn

New York, Feb 11 (ANI): The average teen spends one hour and 40 minutes each week surfing the Internet for pornography, according to new UK research.

This mathematics equates to 87 hours a year spent surfing for porn.

A further hour and 35 minutes is spent looking at dieting and weight loss websites, the Daily Mail reported.

The study of 1,000 youngsters, which found the average teenager was online 31 hours each week looking at soft pornography, plastic surgery, dieting, family planning and emotional support, was conducted by CyberSentinel.

“The alarming thing about this research is that it shows that teenagers are obviously exploring all sorts of topics as a result of modern-day pressures,” the New York Daily News quoted Ellie Puddle, Marketing Director of CyberSentinel, as saying.

“And for some reason they find it easier to go online to conduct their research than asking mum and dad for advice,” she added. (ANI)

A help line for homosexuals launched in Chennai

Chennai, Feb.8 (ANI): Volunteers and associates of a non-government organization here have launched a help line for homosexuals to provide professional and emotional counselling.

The Chennai-based Indian Community Welfare Organisation (ICWO) launched the help line on Saturday.

The ICWO works for the transgenders, eunuchs, homosexuals and the marginalized sections of the society.

According to A J Hariharan, ICWO’s founder Secretary, the help line will address issues confronting homosexuals.

“We want to create some developmental programs for lesbian communities in Tamil Nadu. It will be created as a model for other States to take up. Further more, burning issues like stigma, discrimination, ill treatment and isolation because of being of same sexual orientation, have been facing a lot of violence. This help line will address these issues of lesbian community,” said Hariharan.

As for lady homosexuals, Jenni mentioned that this help line would come to the aid of others like her to come out of depression.

“We, lesbian people, are large in numbers. One can find then in families, in colleges and just about everywhere. Indian Community Welfare Organisation (ICWO) phone help line will be very helpful for lesbian women to come out of depression through proper counselling and prevent them from committing suicide. I have come out of depression. Likewise for others too this will be useful,” noted Jenni, a homosexual based in Chennai.

This help line will work from 7 a.m. till 5 p.m. throughout the week, rendering various services like counselling, emotional support and livelihood assistance to homosexuals. (ANI)