Facebook ‘fuelling divorce’

Melbourne, May 3 (ANI): British marriage counsellors claim that social networking sites like Facebook are contributing to separations and divorces.

According to the Sunday Mail, British divorce firm Divorce-Online said Facebook was cited in one-fifth of the divorce petitions it processed last year.

It emerged that a number of bored middle-aged users in their 40s and 50s have had their lives thrown into turmoil as they try to reconnect with childhood sweethearts through the sites.

Australian Family Relationships Clearing House manager Elly Robinson said online behaviour was causing friction in households.

“People will come in (for counselling) where one partner may deny their online behaviour has been any sort of problem, but the issue is … if it’s upsetting one of those people in the relationship, it’s a problem,” News.com.au quoted her as saying.

Robinson said the lack of research on the effect of online behaviour on relationships was surprising, considering the widespread use of social networking.

“Relationships develop more quickly online because inhibitions are lowered, it’s easy to exchange information, people are online 24/7, there’s an (endless) amount of people you can link up with who are there for the same reason, real life pressures fade away … it’s a bit of a fantasy world,” she said.

Relationships Australia vice-president Anne Hollonds said while the Internet had made it easier to reconnect with lost loves, people ultimately had to take responsibility for their actions.

“The internet doesn’t make people have affairs. It’s become the pathway of choice for many people but I don’t think that means the Internet is breaking up families,” Hollonds said.

“Everyone has some degree of fantasy about a love that might have been from the past and the technology now helps you find these people.

“But there’s no evidence to suggest that had the technology not been available, you wouldn’t have had an affair with someone else anyway,” she added. (ANI)

Uncle Sam serves up tax bill to Philippoussis

Melbourne, Sep.6 (ANI): Tennis ace Mark Philippoussis is being chased by the US taxman and has sold his Williamstown family home to avoid having it repossessed.

It has now emerged that the US Internal Revenue Service has pursued the Scud for about 1.4 million dollars during the past decade.

US records show the IRS still wants about 500,000 dollars for tax debts dating back to 2003.

Philippoussis, who according to his mother is playing in a tournament in San Diego, revealed to the Sunday Herald Sun in May that his money was gone, he was depressed and he was battling to save the family home from repossession.

“Money came in left, right and centre; you just thought that’s how it was for everyone and that’s how it always will be,” he said at the time.

The Davis Cup hero put his Williamstown home on the market to avoid having it repossessed over his unpaid 1.3 million dollar mortgage, but it was passed in for 775,000 dollars in July.

Wayne Elly, of Hocking Stuart, yesterday confirmed Scud’s house had sold recently for about the asking price of 950,000 dollars.

Philippoussis once owned at least five properties in the US, selling the last one in 2005 at a loss.

Official US records suggest he still owes about 180,000 dollars for the 2004 financial year and about 317,000 dollars from 2003.

A former tax debt for about 918,000 dollars dating back to 2001 was satisfied in 2004, according to the Palm Beach County records office.

The IRS would not comment this week, but a US tax expert said the documents suggested the agency was confident it could recoup the debt. (ANI)

2ND LEAD: Peruvian film wins Berlinale’s top honours

2ND LEAD: Peruvian film wins Berlinale's top honours Berlin – Peruvian director Claudia Llosa’s film La Teda Asustada (The Milk Of Sorrow) was the surprise winner on Saturday at the Berlin Film Festival’s prestigious Golden Bear prize.

The movie, about an illness transmitted to children via milk they are fed by mothers who have been raped or mistreated during their pregnancy, was one of 18 films competing for the Berlinale’s Golden Bear.

Argentina-born director Adrian Biniez received three prizes, including a special jury prize, for his film Gigante, about a lonely security guard who works at a supermarket and develops an obsession for a woman he spots on one of the cameras.

German director Maren Ade was also awarded a special jury prize for Alle Anderen (Everyone Else) about a young couple on vacation that find their relationship is put to the test.

The Berlinale’s best director award went to Iranian director Asghar Farhadi’s Darbareye Elly (About Elly), which explores the fine line between truth and lies in middle-class Iranian society after a young woman suddenly vanishes.

With strong stories about women a major focus of this year’s Berlinale, the festival’s seven-member international jury, headed up by Academy Award-winning British actress Tilda Swinton, awarded the silver bear for best actress to Germany’s Birgit Minichmayr for her role in Alle Anderen.

Sotigui Kouyate from Burkina Faso won a silver bear for best actor for his role as a father searching for a son who goes missing in the aftermath of London’s July 7, 2005 terrorist attacks in Paris- born Rachid Bouchareb’s London River.

Israel-born screenwriter-turned-director Oren Moverman won a silver bear for scriptwriting for The Messenger, about two US soldiers who deliver the message to families that their loved ones have been killed in combat. Moverman co-wrote the script with Alessandro Camon.

In addition to the prize for best debut and a special jury prize, Biniez also shared the Alfred Bauer prize for opening up new perspectives in cinema with veteran Polish director Andrzej Wajda, who was honoured for his movie Sweet Rush (Tatarak).

Sweet Rush is a deeply personal story about an older woman whose life in turned upside down by a younger man, who drowns.

But intertwined in Sweet Rush is also the story about the death of the acclaimed Polish cinematographer Edward Klosinski, who was the husband of the movie’s main actress Krystyna Janda and who died during the film’s shooting. (dpa)

Crying baby forces car thief to abandon attempt!

Melbourne, Jan 21 (ANI): A thief, who unknowingly stole a car with a baby in the back seat, had to call for help after she would not stop crying.

Thirteen-week-old Elly Harold had been left inside the car while her mother Jodie went to pay for TV repairs at an electrical repair shop at Alexandra Hills, in Brisbane’s east.

Elly was asleep in the car when her mother ducked into the shop, having left the air conditioning on and the keys in the ignition, but when she returned the car was gone.

“I walked out and the car was gone, and I just said, ‘my car, my baby, my car’s gone, my baby … where’s my baby?’” News.com.au quoted Jodie Harold, 25, as saying.

Police issued a Statewide “amber alert” sending a description of the car to the media, and asking the public to be on the lookout.

But when the thief realised that he had kidnapped a baby, he used Jodie’s mobile phone to call her sister-in-law, and told her that baby Elly would not stop crying.

The car was found abandoned in nearby Wellington Point parked under a shady tree and with the windows down, where baby Elly was reunited with her mom and later taken to Redlands Hospital as a precaution.

“I was 3m away from the car, it was at a guy’s house, he was fixing our TV and I just had to run in and give him money for the quote,” she said.

Her husband Greg agreed that it had been a harrowing day.

“It’s been a stressful day, but the best possible outcome,” he said.

The police are still hunting for the man who stole the black 2003 Holden Vectra hatchback. (ANI)