Dads enjoy less with kids than mums

Melbourne, May 20 (ANI): Dads not only spend less time with their kids, they don’t even enjoy that time as much as mums do, revealed new research.

Twice as many fathers say they “sometimes or less often” enjoy spending time with their children as do mothers, according to a report by the Australian Institute of Family Studies.

AIFS research fellow and the author of ‘The Best Start: Supporting Happy, Healthy Childhoods’, Jennifer Baxter said that when fathers were asked whether they enjoyed spending time with their children, 28 per cent said they “always or almost always” did, compared with 40 per cent of mothers.

In addition, 21 per cent of dads said they “sometimes or less often” enjoyed time spent with their kids, compared with 11 per cent for mums.

“Dads often have that added pressure of long work hours,” News.com.au quoted her as telling The Australian.

“They”re there in the mornings when time is so rushed and at dinner when there”s so much going on, so that stress of combining work with the hard parts of the family day may be spilling over into their level of enjoyment,” added Baxter.

Baxter said that part of the answer to why dads are less satisfied could be that they are more honest about it than mothers.

“There”s a very strong ethos that mothers must love and care and nurture their children. . . while fathers might be more inclined to admit when things aren”t going well,” she said. (ANI)

Simple things in life keep families happy

Melbourne, May 20 (ANI): It is the simple things in life that keep families happy, according to a new study.

The research uses data from the Longitudinal Study of Australian Children, a project that started in 2004 and follows the development of 10,000 children.

Jennifer Baxter, from The Australian Institute of Family Studies, said the study showed that family bonds developed through everyday activities such as having the children help cook meals.

“We know that”s where families bond. They”re developing their relationships with each other, they”re teaching social skills to the children, there”s all sorts of good things happening within those simple activities,” the Courier mail quoted Baxter as saying. (ANI)

Baxter in ‘career-best form’

Waratahs coach Chris Hickey believes missing the Wallabies’ 2009 spring tour has done wonders for prop Al Baxter’s game.

Baxter first made his Super debut for New South Wales in 2000 against the Bulls, and has also notched up 69 Test caps since then.

The prop has not been seen in the green and gold for awhile however, with Baxter left out of the Wallabies’ Spring tour last year.

Hickey said Baxter’s absence from national duties allowed him to use the preseason to condition himself into career-best form.

“I think it is the best football I think I’ve see Al play,” he said.

“In terms of scrummaging, he has scrummaged against some of the best props in the southern hemisphere. I think he is always coming out on top in those contests.

“Against the Sharks, he scrummaged against two Springbok props and was still the dominant tighthead at the end of the day.

“His work around the park, which sometimes missed, is really good this year. He is regularly getting up 10 tackles in a game for no misses, 100 per cent in that regard.

“He is also getting three or four good ball carries for us. I think he is in the best form that I have seen him as far as Super 14 is concerned.”

For now Baxter is putting personal milestones aside as the team prepares for this week’s encounter against the Cheetahs.

The South African side may be sitting close to the wrong end of the Super 14 ladder but have managed to create shock wins against both the Sharks and the Hurricanes.

“Obviously they have quite a good pack and they are big blokes,” Baxter said.

“If you let them play their way then they are a really hard pack to play against.

“This week it is a lot about discipline, to make sure we play the way that we want to play, and don’t get caught in that South African wrestle where it gets high but it is basically trying to use up all your strength because they will get you every time because they are such big guys.”

And while they are not normally associated with the finer things in life, a good prop can be likened to a good bottle of red – they get better with age.

The 33-year-old fully agrees with the notion as he looks towards his 100th Super rugby cap.

“I think the front row is where experience plays a large part and obviously the more games you play the more experience you get,” he said.

“As long as you don’t lose the other areas of your fitness and strength and stuff like that then it is all pretty good.”

Injury concerns

It is still unclear whether the Waratahs will head into the game without Phil Waugh and Wycliff Palu.

The New South Wales skipper, number eight and Berrick Barnes were all injured during last week’s 39-32 win over the Blues.

Hickey says while at this stage Barnes is set to play against the Cheetahs, the verdict is still out on Waugh and Palu.

“They are sort of 50-50 at this stage of the game and we will be able to make a call on that probably on Wednesday of this week,” he said.

“Phil’s injury wasn’t as bad as we first thought and Cliffy had some feeling in his hamstring just before halftime [against the Blues], that is why he came off.

“They are two we will assess over the next 48 hours.”

Injury woes over for Waratahs’ Horne

They say that bad luck comes in threes, and Rob Horne for one, is hoping they are right.

Luck all but deserted Horne during the past year.

The young Waratahs centre suffered three devastating hamstring tears, including one which ruled him out of the Wallabies’ spring tour.

But it seems the 20-year-old’s luck is at last changing, with Horne name to start against the Auckland Blues on Saturday.

“It has been something that I have been building towards since the preseason,” he said.

“As a club, no one is sort of given a spot, you have to earn it, and that is something that I’m pretty proud of.

“I have done my time, hopefully contributed a bit off the bench, and earned the spot.”

The first sign Horne was on his way back to the top came against the Bulls in Pretoria.

On his first touch of the ball, Horne galloped 25 metres down the sideline before passing to Drew Mitchell who scored.

“I was telling Chris that I was ready to play 80 minutes six weeks before that,” Horne said.

“It was good to get out there, I enjoy playing there in Africa and it is a great experience.

“Unfortunately we didn’t get the win, but yeah, it was good to contribute.”

Horne’s fitness and skills will face a mighty test this weekend, with the former Australian Sevens player tasked with marking the Blues’ Rene Ranger.

Ranger caused nightmares for the Brumbies in Auckland’s come-from-behind 39-34 victory last week.

“He is a good player and he is hitting some good form,” Horne said.

“He is strong in contact and aggressive in defence so he is going to be a handful.

“As a side they have got great players across the park so we are going to have to be on song to contain them.”

Horne is one of four changes coach Chris Hickey has made to the side that held off the Western Force last week in Perth.

His selection moves Tom Carter to the bench, while Kurtley Beale will start at full-back, relegating former All Black Sosene Anesi to the reserves.

The other two changes are Wallabies Al Baxter and Wycliffe Palu, both of whom are also set to make their returns from injury.

Virgin Down’s syndrome man turns down sex offers to wait for Miss Right

London, July 15 (ANI): A man suffering from Down’s syndrome has turned down offers of sex, and decided to remain celibate, after his mother launched a campaign to find a woman to take his virginity.

Otto Baxter, 21, made headlines around the world when his mother Lucy, 50, said that she was even willing to hire a prostitute to fulfil his wish.

But despite numerous offers, including a chance to sleep with Australian sex worker and campaigner Rachel Wotton, he has told his mum that he wants to wait for Miss Right.

“Since Otto was in the news he has literally been flooded with offers from women but even though he has been tempted he has never gone through with it,” the Telegraph quoted his mom as saying.

“He says to me that he wants to wait for the right girl which I think is fantastic. He has come to a mature decision and I am very proud of him for that.

“Someone claiming to be from Zoo magazine also called up and said they would be willing to put up the money for Otto to lose his virginity. Otto declined,” she said.

Lucy, who adopted Baxter from birth, said that he almost popped his cherry when Rachel Wotton, 32, a prostitute who specialises in providing sex for disabled people, visited their home in Abingdon, Oxon, in May.

“A production company contacted us and said they wanted to talk to us with Rachel about the sex industry and people with disabilities,” she revealed.

“Otto was besotted with Rachel, she was very beautiful and dynamic and he could have easily made arrangements with her to have sex, but he didn’t.

“He decided that if he did get a girlfriend and they had done something similar he wouldn’t like that at all, so he didn’t,” she added.

Baxter will be appearing in Love, Lust and Las Vegas at 9pm on BBC Three on July 21. (ANI)

Higher earning women tend to do more housework

Melbourne, July 15 (ANI): Women who contribute more to the household finances, as compared to their husbands or partners, tend to do more housework, according to a study.

Led by Janeen Baxter and Belinda Hewitt, of the University of Queensland, the study showed that women contributing 70 per cent or more of the weekly income start doing more housework rather than less.

They put in a little more time cleaning and cooking than a woman who contributes half to the family finances.

The study has shown that as women’s earnings increase compared with their husbands’, they gain more leverage over who does the housework.

“No one wants to do housework but it has to be done. But as a woman earns more money, it gives her more say over how much domestic work she has to do,” Theage.com.au quoted Hewitt, as saying.

However, in few Australian households – about 5 per cent – where women contribute 70 per cent or more to the budget, other sensitivities come into play.

“For these women, doing extra housework is about compensating for their husbands not fulfilling the traditional male breadwinner role,” said Hewitt.

The research is based on 1306 married and partnered couples drawn from the Household Income and Labour Dynamics in Australia survey. (ANI)

Kids of working mums not worse off for care than stay-at-home counterparts

Melbourne, June 30 (ANI): Guilt-ridden working mothers can chill – a new study claims, while breastfed babies are held more and read to more, they sleep 40 minutes a day less and cry five minutes a day more than bottle-fed babies.

The Australian Institute of Family Studies research revealed that full-time working mums spend on average 83 minutes less per day with their baby than stay-at-home mums, but the baby’s father and grandparents make up for the lost mother time, reports The Daily Telegraph.

The study used the Longitudinal Study of Australian Children which asked parents of 3000 babies aged 3-14 months. The volunteers were asked to keep diaries on how their babies time was spent.

“While babies spent less time with their mother if she was in paid work, this time appeared to be made up by fathers and with other relatives such as grandparents,” institute research fellow Dr Jennifer Baxter said.

Dr Baxter said her study showed babies of working mums received the same amount of attention measured in cuddles, reading and conversation as babies of stay-at-home mums. (ANI)

Brit mum appeals women to have sex with Down’s Syndrome suffering son

London, Mar 17 (ANI): A mum whose adopted son has Down’s Syndrome has gone public to appeal for women to have sex with him so he can lose his virginity.

Lucy Baxter, who campaigns for equal rights for Down’s Syndrome sufferers, wants her 21-year-old child to live a fully rounded life – and is considering paying a prostitute to sleep with him.

And she has helped him set up a web page appealing for potential dates to come forward, reports The Mirror.

Lucy, who has three other adopted sons with Down’s and works with charity Mencap, said: “I’d like all my boys to find love and enjoy sex.

“I would have no problem if Otto went to a brothel in Amsterdam.

“I strongly believe, and have always said, that society has a learning disability when it comes to Down’s Syndrome. Why should these people be kept separate and pigeon-holed when they have the same emotions, desires and feelings as so-called normal people.

“He has the same expectations as everybody else. If he doesn’t get a girlfriend, I will feel really bad because I have sold him this thing that he is like everybody else. That’s why I’m working overtime to get this sorted for him.

“I have brought Otto up to relate to everybody, not just a small group of disabled people.”

Otto is an aspiring actor who has appeared in local stage versions of Macbeth and The Canterbury Tales.

Lucy, 50, of Abingdon, Oxfordshire, is single and has never married but has four adopted sons – James, 25, Otto, 21, Titus, 14, and Raphael, seven.

She added: “Everyone else his age is having sex and enjoying being young adults so why shouldn’t Otto? I’d be delighted if he went home with a girl or brought one back.

“I don’t have a problem with any of it. He’s going to Las Vegas for a few days to promote himself as an actor so who knows, he might get lucky over there. When he gets back home I’ve lined up a few dating agencies for him to join. I always encourage him to go to nightclubs and other places where people pick up women.” (ANI)

Victoria bush fires: Man arrested for Gippsland fire

Melbourne, Feb.13 (ANI): Police in the Australian state of Victoria have arrested a man on suspicion that he may have been instrumental in starting a blaze in Gippsland that killed at least 21 people.

The police are questioning the 39-year-old man. No charges have yet been laid, the Herald Sun reported.

The man could reportedly face a charge of arson causing death, but police would not comment on that. No other details were immediately available.

Meanwhile, residents of two towns in the Victoria fires zone are coming under ember attack from surrounding fires.

The ember attack on the Healesville-Kinglake Road cut off Toolangi from its neighbour Healesville as the massive Maroondah Yarra Complex fire, which is out of control and has already burnt through 35,300 hectares, moved closer.ountry Fire Authority (CFA) strike teams from townships in the Dandenong Ranges are in Toolangi trying to fight back the blaze. Some Healesville residents have been evacuated while others are preparing to leave.

The bush fires have killed 181 people, according to the last official count, and it is estimated that more than 1800 homes have been destroyed.

CFA volunteers are still battling 15 fires across Victoria after containing 17 others and bringing 99 under control. Hot, dry conditions are expected again next week.

Police have also released a photo of a man they want to speak with in relation to a suspicious fire in Ivanhoe, in Melbourne’s northeastern fringes. They said he was aged in his 20s, has a dark complexion and was seen wearing black clothes and yellow sunglasses.

Police are also hunting an arsonist whose actions threatened the Mornington Peninsula town of Baxter last night, as the Nine Network aired its bushfire relief telethon. The fire was deliberately lit and “had the potential of becoming a major fire in the area, which is tinder dry”, a police spokesman said.

Police have also arrested two people for allegedly stealing money donated to bush fire victims.

Details of a national memorial service and a day of mourning to remember the victims of the bushfires would be announced very soon, Prime Minister Kevin Mr Rudd said.

“It’s important that the nation has a formal opportunity to grieve,” he said.

He also said an emergency warning system that would send text or voice messages to land lines and mobile telephones to help avert such tragedies was high on the Government’s agenda.

A 10, 000 dollar compensation payment from the Victorian bushfire appeal will be paid to the families of fire victims. (ANI)